What do I do when I can’t do anything?
April 19, 2009
I really hate being helpless. It’s an icky feeling knowing that someone important to you needs help and you can’t do anything but be there. I always think I can do more to ease their, I just simply don’t know what. Then I get more and more frustrated and annoyed at myself for being so useless. What should I do? Why can’t I do anything? Why can’t I be more? Why. am. I. so. useless?
And here is a wonderful song. Btw, rock lee is my hero.
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kureejii | April 19, 2009 at 12:35 pm
I think that band did the intro theme to Tales of the World Radiant Mythology 2 x___X I liked that song better…
Also you aren’t useless, its the person who can’t do it by themselves who are useless, like me for example. You probably feel this way because you’ve been in someone else’s shoes for too long. Take them off, and chill. I feel like a lot of people are like that, and it starts getting on my nerves when people are so hopelessly useless without the help of others. My on personal opinion of course.
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guesswho_12321 | April 19, 2009 at 4:20 pm
wait where is this song from? cause yes it is really sick.
slash w/e u can’t be there for everyone. I know its an annoying feeling but its life so meh. If nothing else just talk to them. there are lots of times where talking is enough for the other person. Like aggy said take off their shoes and chill. It’s the other person’s problems and most likely they dont’ want you to be troubling over whats happening to them. Don’t feel the need to do anything that they don’t ask for, just be ready and be there for them if they ever do.
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pirandomfactor | April 19, 2009 at 6:13 pm
yeah agnes and alf pretty much got it covered. just being there in itself already speaks volumes to the person you want to help. like alfred said, talking is also very good. give them somebody to rant to or to ask an opinion of. if you can’t be there physically, give them a call on the phone, tell them you’ll help them in whatever way you can and if they want your help, they’ll ask for it. and like agnes said, you’re making other peoples’ problems your own. you’ve got a lot on your own plate already, so just offer a hand to the person, and see if he or she takes it.
haha the song reminds me of something i’d find as an op for naruto.
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pi | April 25, 2009 at 3:18 pm
LOL this used to be dan’s favourite song a while ago.
why are you so useless? don’t worry about it. it never bothered you before so why should it now? LOL jokes.
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Argon | May 2, 2009 at 12:34 pm
You’re not useless. Not at all. Simply being there for someone can make them feel better, and allows them to feel wanted. You don’t have to solve someone’s problems in order to ease their pain. So, like everyone before me said, chill. Just keep speaking to them and don’t leave them alone if it looks like they need you. They’ll love you for it.